My step by step on how I please a woman hope it will help others
Warning: Rated XXX

Cunnilingus is one of the most difficult sexual acts to perform
successfully.

Going down isn't?t easy. It takes refined skill and energy for the long
haul.

Cunnilingus, "Oral," "Eating Pussy," or whatever you want to call it is
one of the greatest activities to grace this planet.


It can also be one of the most elusive practices to successfully
perform.

Some women find themselves uncomfortable being the center of her
partner's attention, or more often women get frustrated with having to put up
with unsatisfying results. And often times some men find themselves
lost and bewildered, not knowing what to do, where to go or how to do it.


The art of pleasing one another should not be so secretive and evasive.
Since there currently are no forums for this highly underrated act,
herein lies a path to a more fruitful experience.

Here's how:
A great time to initiate is during a heavy kissing session.

Slowly kiss and lick your way down her torso, making sure to hit all
the sensitive areas such as the neck, breasts, belly button and inner
thighs.

While undressing, talk dirty to her. Or just simply talk.

It's been said that the mind is the biggest sexual organ. This is key.

Stimulation of the body follows shortly behind stimulation of the mind.


Many assume that techniques, which may have worked successfully with a
previous partner, will transfer over easily to the next.

Every woman is different and not just their personalities. The vagina
is like a fingerprint? no two are the same.

Most of the things you hate about oral sex she probably won't like
either, i.e. teeth, licking with out really sucking and whiskers.

You should also be aware of your partner's non-verbal reactions and
cues.

Start slow. You want to consciously work her toward the explosive
climax so that you'll leave a deposit in her sexual memory bank. And if done
right, she will not forget you.

Assuming you've been granted access, you're at the vagina. Start by
kissing and licking it all over but slowly putting more and more emphasis
on the clitoris and surrounding hood, the mecca of all female sexual
pleasure.

Compared to the penis, which contains roughly 4,000 nerve endings, the
clitoris is a pea-sized powerhouse, containing 8,000
tightly-packed-together nerve endings just waiting to be titillated.

Love the clit:
Think of the clit as a mini Tootsie pop you want to suck and lick your
way to the tasty goodness in the center (not biting of course).

Cradle the clit and hood in your mouth, cover your teeth with your
lips, and gently suck while simultaneously caressing the clit with the tip
of your tongue? nod your head slightly up and down.

If done correctly your partner should be writhing in anticipation of
what's to come.

Try varying your tongue-teasing techniques.

Maybe start out with an up and down motion and transition into a figure
eight.

Use both the tip of your tongue and the flat top portion to modify the
texture and thus her receiving pleasure.

Or try tracing the letters of the alphabet, her name, a poem or
whatever across her genitals and clitoris. It may sound tedious, but seeing
how you're going to be there for a while anyhow, it might be best to make
productive use of your time.

Be not afraid to ask what exactly she would like you to do. Hopefully
she's comfortable enough with you and herself to layout the road map.

If not, just experiment with finding her hot-spots. Judging from her
responses you should clearly be able to define what's working and what's
just not up to par.

There are women who are just not vocal. But other ways to detect if she
is enjoying your performance are in sight.

Tightened legs and torso are indications that you're doing something
right. If she is wraps her legs around your head and squeezes the life
out of you like one of the characters in James Bond movie, you are doing
something right.

Pay attention to what she's doing with her hands as well. Are they
clenched, touching other parts of her body, or lying limply at her side?

Ideally she should be squirming, breathing heavily and reaching
ecstatic volumes.

She literally will not be able to stay still or silent if this is done
right.

Also don't focus solely on the clit though it is the source of 80
percent of all women's orgasms. Mix it up a little and improvise see what
works and what doesn't.

Hands also play a fundamental role in mind-blowing cunnilingus, how
much of an aspect depends on you and your partner's preferences.

Again start slow. With one finger gently caress the inner labia and
slowly insert it into the moistened vagina. Now that it's in, gently
massage the upper wall of the vagina in a come-hither motion while still
catering to the needs of the clitoris.

Also if one finger just isn't doing the job, using multiple fingers
simultaneously can have her biting, screaming and seething for more.

Above all else, remain patient and receptive. Go in with the mindset
that this is about fulfilling her needs and if that's too much to focus
on, you really shouldn't bother.

A little shock
What comes next is really up to what you and your female friend are
comfortable with.

The vagina isn't the only sensitive entrance point of the female body.
Great care needs to be taken in going this route.

Permission before entering is definitely necessary. You shouldn't have
to ask, but scout around and judge her reaction. IF SHE HAS NO
REACTION, SHE WOULD NOT PREFER IT. If she openly welcomes it, or moans even
louder, you have your answer.

Before inserting anything you want to make sure the anus is properly
lubricated.

Gently insert a finger (or two) into the vagina and the anus (usually
the pinky). Note that with most women, entering the anus is not needed,
sometimes just the presence of a finger on the outside will do her in.

You are now performing what is called the shocker. Using this technique
while performing cunnilingus will greatly increase the stimulation
your partner feels.

If all is done right what should come next will be Earth shattering for
the both of you.
No matter what happens, try to maintain your rhythm until she makes it
clear that it isn't necessary. Keep your tongue flitting until she
makes you stop.

Make sure she really wants you to stop, if she is laughing, you have
simply over stimulated her. If she is still squirming,then she may just
be on the verge of something bigger. Use your best judgment here.

Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their
climax, while others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you
continue.

Come up for air, give your tongue a break, but keep in mind her
excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does.

And like a shampoo, repeat as needed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


By: Delano Baker (hawaii1964)