My ideal way of a date really is not a date to me at all.. Going out for a movie or going out to eat and a pleasant conversation is always relaxing and a great start however staying home to play a board game or a card game is always awesome!! Hell even watching the TV or listening to the radio or the CD player eases the tension of a long day...My point is why be so formal when you could be casual and still get to know each other??Let's chat!!!