The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." I'm in the mood for good times on the side. When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. I've always been good at getting a conversation started and keeping it interesting. In my free time I like to spend time in the outdoors. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. I look forward to whatever life brings. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it.