About us, well we're probably just as boring as everyone else. We've been married 27yrs, been a couple 33yrs. Still don't have enough free time, money, sex, swing partners or friends. Cathy developed some health problems (arteritis) this year (2006) and can't work now. I work but got cut to part time a few months ago. "It just keeps on coming."So in December 2006 I get laid off. In January, around the 26th, Cathy has another stroke and while the Doctors are checking for damage from the stroke they discover a tumor in her neck. She had cancer in her neck, lungs, stomach, liver and the abdominal lymph glands. It was very advanced but nothing indicated cancer and it never showed up before on any tests. We took a little vacation to Las Vegas March 6 - 9 and she died on April 3rd 2007. I've never known loneliness and heartbreak before and I hate it.We have 2 grown daughters and 2 grandsons, they are really cool.Yes we're swingers, have been for ??? 7 or 8 years. Always been safe, sane and D&D free. It's great, wanna check it out?