Was born March 21, 1962 with the name Pamela Kalikolehuaopanaewa Willing then in 1985 took the name of WAKUTA when I got married to a Kauai Boy. Almost 20 years later we divorced but am happy to be single. Mother of 3 children (l boy~20 and 2 girls~17 and 12). Have been through hell and back many times but everyday I'm thankful for the mistakes and bad choices I've made because it's made me a better person today. Have no regrets whatsoever and if I had to relive my life again I wouldn't change anything. My attitudes and insights on life has made me a more compassionate, understanding, not judgemental and not condemning person. My greatest joys are my children and my greatest accomplishments are the trials and tribulations that I've overcome and endured which has brought me real peace. Anything else just hit me back and I'll tell you what you wanna know.
I love traveling.....Maybe because I don't get to travel as much as I'd like. My interests are seeing my children succeed in life and knowing that I've taught them better ways to make right choices by sharing with them the mistakes i've made with my own life. Let me tell you I've made really stupid choices and decisions but hey I don't look my nose down at anyone, absolutely no one. My trials aren't any worst than anyone else's but i'm sure every trial we've been through always seemed like it was the most hardest to overcome. You name it, I probably did it but then again maybe not. Who knows? I'd like to leave this world knowing that I made a difference to someone. I would like to be remembered as someone who you could talk to and be comfortable around. That means the world to me. Knowing that just by saying Good Morning or not saying anything at all but just by listening would give me great pleasure.
Music
My kind of music i enjoy is mainly Hawaiian and Country. I guess being born and raised on the island of Molokai and being a hula dancer since I was 6 no wonder I love Hawaiian music. Love country music too because I love the country life because Molokai is an island with 7500 people there and no traffic lights either. Hell we don't even have a McDonalds, Burger King, KFC or Jack in the Box. That's why I feel as if I'm a country girl. Our traffic jam is when 2 cars stop in the middle of the street to say hello. Other than that i listen to other types of music but it has to be those that have meaning or words i can understand.
