I'm going to meet someone new, last one was doing drugs it turns out. I haven’t dated much being prone to relationships but I look forward to meeting someone whether it goes anywhere or not just for the fun of going out and meeting someone new. If it’s just a night out then that’s fine, if it feels like something more… I’ll worry about that then. While my ultimate goal is a long-term relationship I’m open to making new friends, especially the active and adventurous kind. Ultimately though I am looking for someone to get to know on a personal level and I’m sure we can have a good time while accomplishing this. I have a much easier time getting to know someone in a casual environment. There are times to dress up but to me meeting someone for the very first time is just not one of them - I'm looking for someone I can love or possible new friends, not a new business associate. I like to laugh, keeping things light. I don’t really like being around people who take things so seriously that they can never have any fun. I’m smart, look good, and keep myself in shape because thats just important to me. I cannot expect my mate to be as fit as I am but would like to be able to do things together outdoors, even if it's just tennis or walking in the woods with the wolf at night. That being said, I am content doing any of a number of things indoors as long as you can understand that I have to have time to do things like paintball, running, going to the gym and taking the wolf to the woods at night. Don’t worry, I shower often. Personality wise I’m moral, honest, courageous, chivalrous (according to the Chinese placemat) and so on. I like a good conversation and prefer to meet over coffee because it's just a good way to meet I think. If you have a better idea let me know. I have never smoked or done drugs, frequented bars or clubs, or slept around. No one is perfect but I have always held myself to a high standard and that’s made it difficult to find someone comparably clean in a physical, mental and moral way. For instance I will not be with someone who schedules her day around happy hour, I cannot be screamed at by a ‘made for Jerry Springer’ woman, and I won’t be with someone who has children by 2 different men or has to go out the door every 5 minutes for a smoke. Sorry. Don’t know what else to say so if you want to know more just ask and please don’t be shy!