Ok so let's cut the crap.

11-28-2013
Pretty much undergoing a transformation within myself.
I realized last night that I needed a change.
I'll no longer be taking things at face value.
Actions will speak louder than words, which is why I am going to be open about myself right now.
Accept me, or get the hell off my page, I no longer give a damn what anyone thinks.

I'm 31, hairline is receding, My teeth have been screwed from a combination of bad dentistry and at times, fear of going back for more bad dentistry(Of which I have a very uncomfortable partial for). I'm 6'3 225 lbs, down from 305 in Feb, and 350 being my max, I lack the motivation and willpower to go work out, despite needing to. I have baggage. Currently married, though separated, waiting to file divorce papers until after my grandmother fully recovers from her cancer removal surgery scheduled in mid December. I have 2 beautiful daughters. They are more important to me than any person on this planet, much less on this site, if I am busy with them, I am busy with them, and that is all...if one day I choose to include you in my time with them, then you can consider yourself lucky because they are full of awesome, and are my life.

I've learned from my dealings with the soon to be ex-wife, that some things need to be demanded in any kind of relationship, it doesn't matter how big or small.
Honesty. Communication. Flexibility.
You want a relationship to work these are 3 key ingredients.
Don't lie to me, I may be lazy, but I'm not stupid...I will find out.
Don't shut me out, if you have problems I'm MORE than willing to lend and ear, and if you would like, to give advice from my perspective.
Don't try to control me, especially using underhanded tactics, such as guilt or blackmail. Ask, don't tell, I'm usually willing to budge, but the minute I feel forced I will push you away. On that same note, I will not try to force you to do anything.