Once you get past the self-deprecating humor, you will soon learn that I'm a raging egomaniac. Nah, that's not true. How do you just say that you're a nice, successful guy looking to share his life with his future soul mate? Maybe this will paint the breath taking landscape you are seeking. I'd rather be the guy who has big dreams and no money than a guy with no dreams and big money. Freedom and adventure excite me! I must admit, I am quite the go-getter! If I don’t like what I see, I will just photoshop it until I do. I am a college graduate, home owner with a successful career. I guess now you want to know what I do. This is not simple to explain. I am hated by some and considered a hero by many. I am not in the military like my father, but I do fight -- protecting and liberating those who are oppressed. I do the often unnoticed and thankless work that plagues our back yards. I fight the forces of evil that seek to steal, kill, and destroy the lives of vulnerable children. So, if you are looking for a highly educated, dedicated, and passionate man who loves your sense of adventure, then keep reading. I love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of classic movies, your scrapbooking or the fact that you moved across country with only a duffel bag -- it doesn't matter. It's better to understand than to be misunderstood. Laughter can save a relationship; lack of laughter can kill it. Having Soup can actually be an aphrodisiac if served at the right time of night. Hygiene is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. You must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards. I love to get dressed up in a 3 piece suit and have no where special to go. I live for the moments in which we do fun things in fun places that create memories that last forever and laughter that lasts a lifetime. It is your turn to inspire me.


A first date…It doesn't involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. The right woman not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful love messages for each other when we're away on business trips. Our life together…You can sit in your room working while I do a complete a puzzle and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present. However, if this is the only thing you are after, you will never get it. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship. I smile when I think of you. I walk around your favorite stores and I want to buy you that one beautiful item you pointed out but would never get for yourself. I think it's cute when you snort as you laugh. You make fun of me when I can't leave the house without having to take everything out of my pockets to make sure everything that needs to be in them is there. I'm not jaded by past relationships. When and if you even if you get lucky and meet a winner, there's a mountain of work ahead, no matter what. It's knowing that the work is worth it, that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Friendship is not at all out of the question. It's welcomed, but I'm a firm believer in chemistry and wouldn't turn my back on someone incredible.. A perfect relationship is one in which the reality is not that far from your fantasy. As long as you have a realistic fantasy, you are bound to one day find your bliss. So, if you are a independent, non-smoking woman, I'm already melting.