ABOUT MYSELF I am a 38 year old female, I enjoy going to church, reading. writing poetry,enjoying the company of someone who has morals about life, someone who doesn't mind being just who they are Has to be funny and enjoy life as much as i do. I am very spontaneous and outgoing and very independent. I have alot of values and respect for myself as well as my man. I have his back through good and the bad times. There is a saying that all men are the same. In my opinion that is a big misconception. Don't get me wrong I've had my share of life's ups and downs with men. I always ask the question, Has this man always been like this or did a bad relationship or was it the woman that made him that way. And the same could be said for the woman. That when I try to look at things from his point of view and walk a day in his shoes and just feel where he is coming from. And then we try to find a way to make it work "together". together we stand, divided we fall. And i dont turn my back on him for any reason. if i do its just to hold him up when he feels like he's about to fall. And at no time let outside inter fences come between that. I handle belongs to me as long as he treats me like a woman should be treated. I am a woman that knows how to keep her man happy. I believe that things should be 50/50. Even with the respect for each others feelings. I am not with all the drama. Drama only brings about division, and i don't like anything thats going to bring division between me and mines. If you are a man that has and likes these qualities please respond. Make no mistake, I am a very beautiful, black woman.I am looking for someone who is not interested only in looks but what i have to offer intellectually. Beauty is where you find it, whether it be in conversation or looks. It really depends where you look. I am only looking for a friend right now. PLEASE SIGN MY GUEST BOOK THANK