Well let me start off by saying that things happen for a reason. And that is really the best way to look at things. I have done so much in my life that I really have no complaints about it. I do what I want when I want. I have a great job that I really enjoy. I have many great talents that keep me busy when I'm not at work and I make extra money doing it. I use to date this chick who is on here. 'becky aka 'Happiest girl ever!!!'. Look her up. You know things just don't go always as planned. But it's been great since we have split up. The funny thing is she says she left. But Honestly, I told her that if she wasn't happy then it's time to move on. Which is how is should be. If your not happy with something, change it. And believe me. I have. I have changed so many things about myself that it really feels good to be me again. Not living to what everyone else says you should live like. Since we have been apart. I have traveled a lot more. I hate drama queens. And she was. Always had to be in someones business. Never could get her own right so she would put her nose into someone elses. I don't have to worry about how much money is spent anymore. It's mine, and I can do how I please. I just got back from italy. God what a great place. The food is amazing. The joys of life are what keeps me going. My job allows me to move how I please and when I please. I have met the woman of my dreams. I have my kids, my dogs and the greatest wife ever. What else can I say. I will end with this. Live life to the fullest. You only get one. And like my new clothing line moto Inner motive "Live in your discomfort zone". Mahalo