For the most part I am an introvert. Most of my friend are those that I have had for over 40 years. I have never been to open to trusting people, but life has taught me to trust even less. If I let you in, it means something to me. I hate being lied to. The truth can be painful, but it never hurts more than the lie. Lying to me also implies that you don't value my intelligence. Trust me, I am far from stupid and the intuition works really well also.

If you are on here to play games with peoples feelings, hook up, or be an asshole, keep moving. Not interest in wasting my time. I am married and while things aren't always perfect, I ALWAYS respect the vows. I made a promise before God and family. My word means something to me. If you are looking for real conversation and friendship reach out to me. As I stated above, I am an introvert but I am worth the work to become friends. I am ALWAYS there for those that become a friend.

While everyone is entitled to their opinion, I am not interest in arguing. If you can't respect that we disagree, that I have reasons for how I think and feel, then once again, keep moving. I am not on here to argue - especially with bigots or racists. I might not believe in the leaders of BLM, but I do stand in agreement with the message. Yes all lives matter - but Blacks have been murdered for just being.

My favorite place to be is a family camp in the mountains. It is my escape. My Zen. It is the one place that I can find my balance again. Life isn't always easy, often times too much. I struggle with that constantly. Going to camp, listening to the brook . . . it forces me to relax and breath.