But it can be answered….For there is a greater spiritual truth governing it that is beyond the reasonings of man. Things are not equal, but they are indeed fair…for we all in fact create our own reality by the power of our focused thoughts rather we know it or not. You get what you most think and expect. It is Universal Law!! Like attracts like. Whatever you’re thinking is what you are receiving. You alone think your thoughts so you alone determine your life.