NO! Please, please do yourself a favor OK.. Find out what a person is into or where they live or if the are in a relationship before you creep in their private messages and talk literally about"sex" I am in MN, nowhere near CA. I am asking you this one time and trying to teach you a little about Fubar before you get blocked.. Look for the chicks with the NSFW pictures, I promise they will sell them to you or give them away for free. Just because you are Happily Un-Married doesn't mean the rest of us are. I would NEVER be a home wrecker or a Side Piece! Have a Great Day!