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40 Year Old · Male · Joined on June 11, 2017 · Born on February 25th
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40 Year Old · Male · Joined on June 11, 2017 · Born on February 25th
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First time trying a site like this and after today, I probably won't even check it again until someone mentions it.
But, I am interested in learning if anyone fits a "near perfect" profile. And if there is, that's the person that I wouldn't mind hanging with. I am social and I have met people from all walks of life, but I have a handful of best friends that qualify because of personal experiences in the past from school days.

I know that I can be a good friend, the party thrower, the life of the party, the honest and helpful ex-boyfriend, the humble underachiever with all his goals achieved and allowed himself to throw it away while dealing with OR rather avoiding reality and accepted that all of us are no better than the other mentality.

I enjoy introducing others to productive ideas , projects, or directions who in turn provide sincere gratitude and have later with their success, have paid it forward to myself and others. Once described as the guy who wants to save the damsel/dude in distress which I still clearly have a place in my heart; but diminished resources, unappreciative recipients, and just a few factors that have hardened my heart. An ex-wife who reaped benefits of extraordinary high alimony, settlement, and child support for 17 years, while purposely evading any communication with me, but provided a stable environment for the safe and normal upbringing to my daughter, is the first reason why I am have bitter-sweet taste in the trusting of women. And subsequent serious relationships comprise the other various reasons why I have remained single. One consistent phase that I mirrored was the honeymoon stage but moreover, women have learned and practiced the "double standard" effectively. I believe at the expense of losing a stand up, fun, loyal, intelligent, fitness-practicing confident guy.

40 Year Old · Male · Joined on June 11, 2017 · Born on February 25th
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For potential friends, or for a topic to be amused by, I would bet that less than ten percent of any social media population has anyone that represents the following qualities based on personal experiences that have shaped their person. And the trait can't be something that they wish they would be and it can't be one that they have practiced before. These are traits that I believe would support a wonderful person.
Check it out:
1) Takes care of themselves. Maybe not eating the healthiest all the time, but has the habit of brushing their teeth, enjoys clean clothes, etc. isn't lazy for any daily necessity that many of us have made excuses for and cover with a binge day or two to make up for it.

2) Has a steady source of income and is willing to discover opportunities that may move them upward into a higher tax bracket, but not the primary agenda with every person that they invest their valuable time with.

3) Time management and balance of family, self, friends, work and hobbies. This is a habit and can have periods of back log or valid reasons to justify the starting over and application but either a person has been practicing it from childhood or they haven't
4) Humor: Seeing common every day events that aren't injurious to the subject but ironic or silly or has the wit to laugh and be witty throughout the day. Not a constant one-liner joker who thrives on making a person laugh and then one-ups himeself to make that same person laugh more and longer. Thats irritating.
5) A respectful relationship with their parents and siblings, friends, and colleagues. Complaining about something that you have no control over or have expectations for people that are acquaintances will make anyone cynical, defensive, or self-righteous, but having the tact to negotiate, back off, influence others is a trait that can be learned and gossip becomes a past-time instead of a lifestyle.
6) Takes the high road most of the time, even at times when they are right but the situation calls for diplomacy because the person is just one of the whole. On the other hand, can that person be passionate about a position, a topic, a policy, a law that they have a plan to succeed in a paradyam shift and be recognized for their efforts which brought a civil right , a good ol boys unchallenged discriminative process into check.
7) If you have read this so far, I am impressed already. This will be the cut-off trait for most. SINCERELY, can you accept constructive criticism and are you willing to do sensible good habits to maintain an attitude or perspective change that of course would benefit yourself and has everlasting effects on being a better person.
8) Has the capacity to understand another person's belief, make black and white decisions if they are chosing to make them a friend. I guess I mean, do you have the maturity to judge people for what they are and accept whatever their choice is BUT have the will to stop a relationship if the person is a liability for their very nature, and of course its easy to say that one would gladly accept another person whose profile would be represent an asset to their existence in business or on a personal level.
9) Have a heart to empathize, have the decency to sympathize, and have the will to exemplify strength, honesty, and remain ambitious, yet have checks or phases in their goals to redraft a new direction or reflect on past achievements, relics, trials, and tribulations.

BORING, this is supposed to be a site where people meet each other to goof off, I think. But if I am wrong it wouldn't be the first time.

My e-mail is thinkb4speaking@outlook.com or justlooktheotherway943@gmail.com
It may be revealing to the type of person I am or can be given the situation, but some of you may think that a better e-mail may have been verboseopinionatedpompouseselfrighteousthinkingjudgmentalidiot@domain.com
I wont be checking this site again unless it is brought up in conversation, so if there is just one person that sees life as I do, I would love to have some laughs over a lunch overseeing the ocean with the bill being spit in two and the potential friendship that I have with limited people who are too far from me to enjoy more frequently.

Glenn
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I have learned to program Kodi and its associated builds which has been a side-job or an activity to gift friends that appreciate the open source platform that KODI has masterfully associated itself with.

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Idols: I am a person who likes to watch normal people do extraordinary things. I don't have a favorite basketball, baseball, or football team as I will get the high watching any player perform an act worthy of a highlight.
My parents and brother are the people that I know best and I am fortunate to have GREAT people that are extraordinary in their actions and accomplishments.

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