What I'm looking for in a man is someone who has equally varied interests who is smart, funny, and a good conversationalist who has a strong sense of self and who, while not afraid to speak his mind,Someone who is kind to woodland creatures, doesn't put a carton of anything back in the fridge when it has only a thimbleful left, and uses his turn signal. someone who doesn't mind pouring his heart out when the time is right. I want to converse with someone who likes to share inner thoughts and is comforting and caring. The man I date will must be able to support himself and his woman and be there for each other for better for worse. I want a man who isn't afraid to get close and snuggle up to me on a cold night or who wouldn't mind turning up the air conditioner so he'll have an excuse to wrap his arms around me. I am the type of woman who would always be appreciative of a man who thinks creatively, who plans unique dates, and who steps outside his comfort zone to make me happy. A man who puts forth the effort to please will definitely be pleased in the future. In one word THOUGHTFUL. If I found a thoughtful man I would never let him go.