The History of Jordan to a and Isis According to Isis:
I met Jordan on myspace. I was message single people in the York area to try and make new friends. The thing that caught my eye was the photo shop picture he created of himself. We both arrange to meet, he decided to introduce me to more people then just himself, I was also to meet his friends. This shocked me as most men or guys I meet on here want to get me alone in a dark room.
When Jordan came to my door I was so nervous but when I saw him I was even more nervous, he looked amazing. He took very good care of himself and was shy and sweet. We didn't talk much on our first date but he made it a point to let me know he wanted to be a part of my life. I had a minor cold and he sent me roses. I told him how I love movies and have so many but I didn't have my dvd player with me. He offered to bring his but then bought me one. I was floored, guys like this aren't real in life.
As I spent even more time with Jordan I got to bare witness to how sensitive he was but yet he remained manly. He treated me like I was the only women on earth. It also shocked me that he didn't expect sex and didn't much talk about the subject. At first I liked it, then felt a little offended, then realized I really liked that about him. All he wanted, it seemed, was to be near me. We got even closer and I just started falling for him. I was so scared. I loved that we didn't need to talk just be close; and we never called each other. He'd spend the night and just hold me. His eyes were so intense, his body was amazing, but I really love his mind. I love that it took him so long to open up and really laugh and be goofy.
I love it when he wrestles with me and didn't mind me scratching him, he let me pop his zits, he wrote me love notes when ever I went out, and he just seemed to really love all of me completely. I have never known someone like him and I doubt I ever will meet anyone like that other then him.
Now Jordan and I live together. We've been in our apt. for about 4 months or so and we've been together about a year. We've had our ups and downs and are still working on things. One thing I know about Jordan in that he does listen. He knows what's important to me, what really matters, and he wants to make me truly happy. He goes to work and I do the house work, until I begin school. We are building this life together; sometimes I fear it will disappear and I will be stuck like I was a few times before. I was broke, broken, and my heart was shredded. When i feel this way i remind myself of his sweetness and selflessness. I know he wants to make me happy, he can make me happy, and all I need to do is explain what i want or need. If he loves me as much as I love him he will always put me first and do all that HE can to ensure my happiness. That's why he is the man I will marry.
Our plans our to get married Halloween of this year and have a wedding ceremony the following Halloween. I don't think we plan to have kids, Just our multitude of pets we call our kids. I love Jordan beyond measure and will do my best to make him happy.
The History of Jordan and Isis According to Jordan:
I was a bit apprehensive to meet Isis for the first time. I don't have many female friends to begin with and it takes me a long time to open up to people, so I hoped for something good without though I didn't expect that
she would like me, being as introverted and nerdy as I am.
I also worried, after we had messaged each other a few times, that she wasn't interested. I wanted to have her come see a band with me which a few of my friends played in, and remember her saying she couldn't.
The next time I got to plan a 'date' was when I was meeting with some friends for our weekly game night,
which at the time was soccer followed by wings at a local bar. She did come along, but I was feeling overwhelmed
and terribly shy and another guy that I, myself had only met recently ended up talking with her more than I. I felt pretty uninteresting and was getting more nervous as I realized how much I liked her. In hindsight, it was
kind of nice to sort of eavesdrop on her conversation and learn more about here. I was so impressed that she was
into all of the same things that I love: anime, fantasy, Japanese culture, movies. She was so different from
almost any girl I've met.
I remember when I picked her up at her home how nervous I was. The door was open and I saw her get up from the computer to come out and I could see the silhouette of her figure, which was amazing and when she got to the
lit porch I saw how beautiful she was and I noticed her mohawk, which was really cool. I don't know too many girls
who sport mohawks, and most probably wouldn't look so good if they did.
I was worried that she wouldn't want to see me again since I was such a bad first date, and was ecstatic when she asked to see me again the next night.She was so appreciative of the smallest things and she really listened (when I had the nerve to talk).
After a little while, we were talking about matching tattoos, and I suggested that we brand each other with
matching brands, and one night before Thanksgiving, we did it. It's great to see it and be reminded of our dedication to each other. I don't think many people have that anymore. Eventually, when we can afford it, we are
going to get the two halves of a tattoo, and she is helping me to design my first tattoo as a mohawk to go down my scalp.
We've been living together for 4 months now and I'm so relieved to live with someone who can clean up after
herself, etc.
She is so good to me. She bought me sitar strings for my sitar for my birthday along with a sweet kitten,
even though she dislikes cats, all despite the fact that I had no money to do anything for her on her birthday...
and she paid for us to go see Tool together.
I love feeling like I can actually trust a woman... and I've had a VERY bad track record with fidelity in
relationships, so it definitely took some time. It's nice to be able to have a mutual respect and love with
another person as well as the physical attraction.
I'm hoping to save up for a new camera as we've been working on taking pictures and she has been accepted by the Suicide Girls. I love taking pictures of her, even though I'm not very good at giving direction.
I'm also blessed to have a girl with a good head on her shoulders, because I haven't been very good with money in the past. I know that when her house in North Carolina sells, we can relax and won't have to worry about
money very much, we can buy our OWN place and fix it up to our liking. Until then, I'm going to work as she goes
to school for nursing and I'll go to school later when we can afford it.
In addition to all of this, she is so supportive of my music and my story writing and is always ready to
give me constructive criticism and to help me promote myself.She inspires me and helps keep me on track despite my tendencies to stagnate from time to time.I love my Sakura-sama very much and I can't wait to be married this Halloween.