I went to file for sole custody of my children today. Has been no cotact from their mother in 4 weeks. Of course, I couldn't file the whole thing due to information purposes, but still, I went...
The ex's mother sent me a ton of information. My ex's parole officer, welfare fraud investigation, the works..
I took that to the support unit here in town. They will call around and try to find my ex, possible charges brought up.
In the waiting room, there was an old friend there from way back when. When I was with the ex, anyway. My ex's eldest is friends with hers. The kid had told her that the mom (my ex) was back in jail.
If that's the case, it was a violation of parole as well as the new charges. New charges are possibly ( I don't know for a fact yet) are Welfare fraud, for reporting that her eldest was living with her, when she wasn't and getting services for that claimed child. Another possible charge is filing a false report to CPS. The ex turned her own mother in saying she had dope plants growing in the house.
With what I had done today, it would be another false report with support units. Claiming she couldn't find a job and was living off her b/f's unemployment check, when, in fact, she's been working for 6 months. Her parole office allowed her this, and knew of it. Also, she will/could be charged with not showing for court, following court order. Also, a support issue. Last, but probably not least, perjury, by telling the judge, to his face, under oath, what I had just told you.
Violation of parole = 3 years (her full, original term)
at least 1 year for each other offense x 2.. due to there being two seperate counties she was messing with. Each county will try her separately..
Right now, several people are currently looking for my ex...
What am to tell the kids?
I wanna laugh so hard.. but I also feel so badly..