DNO ASIANHOTTIE's blog: "me just being me"

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find out what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you DESERVE, then HELL NO you can't be FRIENDS. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "It will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he try anything different with you? Make boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less. Never let a man define WHO you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. Not all men are dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending.... compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships.... there is nothing cool about baggage.... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you.... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.... look for someone complimentary not supplementary. Dating is fun.... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes.... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. DONt fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, and hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an ENTIRE LIFETIME to FORGET THEM. ~~~~~ LOVE starts with a SMILE, grows with a KISS, and ends with a TEAR. DONt cry over anyone who won't cry over you. Good FRIENDS are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget. You can only go as far as you push. ACTIONS speak louder than words. The HARDEST thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else. DONt let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff. LIFE'S SHORT. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it. A BEST FRIEND is like a four leaf clover, HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE. Some people make the world SPECIAL just by being in it. BEST FRIENDS are the siblings God forgot to give us. When it HURTS to look back, and you're SCARED to look ahead, you can look beside you and your BEST FRIEND will be there. TRUE FRIENDSHIP "NEVER" ENDS. Friends are FOREVER. Good friends are like STARS. You don't always see them, but you know they are ALWAYS THERE. DONt frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile. What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry? Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them. Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end. Most people walk in and out of your life, but only FRIENDS leave footprints in your heart