This is a favorite picture of mine. I love the peacefulness and the art and the everything. I'm a huge dolphin fanatic. They are creatures that are so gentle and tame but will strike out and kill one of the oceans most feared creatures, the shark, to protect themselves and their family. They are majestic and beautiful. They are also unbelievably smart and loyal. This is how women should be.
There are so many females in this world that give women a bad name. They are manipulative and conniving. Men are too afraid to be hurt to trust women. I would be too if I were a man. I have seen first hand what females can do to people. Females have this power and they take advantage of it. They use people to get what they want and then they drop them like a bad habit. They are sneaky and vicious. I believe that many men act like dogs because they have been treated like dogs by these females. Why take that risk again. Why not get them before they get you right?
We women need to step up and show men what we are really about. That we can be independent and need a man all at the same time. We don't need them to carry us we need them to compliment us. To counterbalance us so to speak. We need their pure masculinity to seduce our feminine wants and desires. We need their strength to show us that we don't have to be strong all the time. We need to show them that they can't treat us the way they have been taught to treat us. They have to respect us and ours with the same respect they show their Momma.
Ladies if your man doesn't step up to his responsibilities don't dog him out, teach him, show him how to be a man. How to love you the way you need and want to be loved. Men are willing to learn if they think you are worth it. And you are. You know it and they know it. Don't wait around for some other woman to show him the way. Cause she'll show him the way to herself. We all have to make sacrifices in life. Don't sacrifice your happiness to please anyone. But don't give up so easily on your man. If he has ambitions and dreams and you really do love him, take the time to show him, teach him but do it without damaging his pride or integrity. He is after all a man.
But remember, how he treats his Momma is a good indication of how he'll treat you. None of us want a Mommas boy. But I guarantee he'll love you better, harder and truer than a man that doesn't have a good relationship with his mom.
All you females out there need to slow down and start respecting yourselves first and foremost. You need to learn there's a difference in loving yourself and respecting yourself. All you big headed females that think what you have is confidence and independence will grow old alone thinking about the good ol' days when you had 100 different men and 100 different diseases. Slow down and take a step back. Ask yourself if you really are happy going from one guy to the next. Yeah we all blame it on how men have been treating us and how they dog us why not dog them? Ask yourself this... Why'd you let them?
