Have you ever noticed that women say "All I want is a man that will love me and treat me with respect" and then they turn down guys that are too old, too ugly, too fat, too skinny, too whatever? Over the years I have watched them turn guys down and hook up with some pretty boy that treats them like dirt. Most of them do not seem to learn from it either, at least not until they get much older. I remember one lady that rejected this guy because he was too old, he did not look the part. After two bad marriages and numerous failed relationships she ended up marrying a guy that could have been a twin to the one she originally rejected; of course by then the original was too old to consider marrying her,lol. Had her standards changed as she aged, or had she just gotten wiser and realized that the older, fatter, thinner, or whatever guy was the one that was most likely to treat her the way she needed to be? At the wedding all I could think of was "What a waste of all of those years and tears" when she ended up with what she had thrown away to start with. I do wish they would just be honest like they say they want us to be and admit that what they want is a Brad Pitt that will treat them like an ugly guy will. I am not saying that guys are any better, but at least they say they want a woman with big hooters or whatever and just that they want somebody that will love them. Life is funny, she ended up being happy with the guy and they are still married today. Have you ever noticed how it turns out like that so often?
