350913's blog: "Mos Stef's Stuff"

I've read so many blogs on this site about how evil the women in the bloggers life are, so I'd like to whine about guys for once :) To be clear though, I'm not making fun of anyone's prolems or invalidating what they wrote- I just need to get rid of this "suppressed" feeling.

If you get to know me, it becomes apparent pretty quickly that I'm one of those emotionally sensitive types. I don't mean I run off and cry at the drop of a hat or make everything an EVENT, but I kind of wear my heart on my sleeve. I seem to attract a lot of emotionally cold men for some reason, and they always end up exploiting that weakness. When someone is my friend, or when I love them- I just adore them and will do anything for them. Guess how often that blows up in my face?

Even though I hear- a LOT- about what a "great" girl I am and how "any guy would be lucky to have me" (original stuff, no?) I get passed over for the bitchy hot chick. Now a fairly nice guy will praise how great I am, then go out with this obviously evil, cold chick based on her sex appeal. Then comes the classic guy complaints- "women are so crazy! She's such a bitch! She used me and left me!" Wow, dude, I'm shocked. Really. You ignored the sane, sweet girl (that keeps her sexuality in the bedroom, oh la la) that you can get along with like a friend and listened to your johnson and it BACKFIRED?!?! Oh noes, there goes the divorce rate!

Is the male world trying to tell me to be a bitch so this will stop happening to me? If that's the message then please- just let me know! Otherwise, guys are cool and they make good friends :) Now keep your anti-girl statements to your own blogs, because man I have heard my share already!