today i told a friend that i was ending my marrage and it up set this friend badly,,cuz he just went threw a devorice him self.i wanted to tell him as badly as it hurts i was done liveing my life in fear and anger.i need to be happy but i under stand why this friend is mad...sean if you read this i am sorry we can't stay friend...but i need to be happy not just foe me but my kids too...i have cryed many tears over this and it hurts like hell but in the long run it will be good for every one..(with all my tears i cry, it always hurts to say good bye)