Ok someone please help me on this how come when you start talking to someone do they feel like they need to play with your mind.. Why do they say yes I want a relationship when in all reality they don't they are just looking for an easy piece of a**... Things would be alot easier if they come out and say hey I just want to have sex with you that's it.. They might get it a lot faster than playing the whole mind trick thing.. If they come out with the truth in the beginning then the other party has a chance to protect themselves and decide if they want to get involved or not and if they do then it's their own fault if they brought the feelings into it and not so much the other person who was straight forward with them from the start... So how come people do this and not be straight forward from the start, but play around with the people's emotions.. I feel that one is better prepared if they know somewhat, what they are getting themselves into .. I know not all the time one doesn't start out wanting just a sexual thing, but different circumstances arise and it's better or the feelings just aren't there.. SO people please be honest and tell us hey I would like to get into a relationship with you or I would like to see where it goes and have an honest intention on trying to make it work.. I know all the time it doesn't, but just be honest with us, that is all we ask.. This isn't for one gender either way women do it as much as men so it is an all out blog just to let people know tell us the truth things might work out alot easier..
