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MBHarleyMan's blog: "Why Today?"

created on 04/07/2014  |  http://fubar.com/why-today/b358185  |  1 followers

Why

Today is April 7, 2014. It's almost 6AM. Normally this time of day I am doing missions in the Mafia turf and rating my family and whomever else stopped by to see me during the night, but not today.

WHY?

Yesterday, as most of you know, Dee went for her 10K like achievement. There was a lot of preparation that went into this. Dee originally was only going to go for 5K, but after 2 days of me being on her back and getting her closest friends on here to talk her into it she finally decided to go for 10K. 

Dee spends MOST of her time on Fubar helping others. There are those that are at the top level that Dee helped when they first started. Dee didn't like the idea of asking others to help HER. She has never minded asking people to help others.

Sunday was Dee's day. We rallied friends and family to post a banner (that by the way a friend did TWICE when we changed it to 10K.. Thank you, you know who you are). We started out asking family members and friends to place it on their pages, they passed it on to others and so on. Next thing I knew in a matter of a few hours I was having a hard time going to somebody's page and NOT finding Dee's banner on their page.

This made me proud. I know how much time Dee has spent helping others. You may see SOME of it, but I see it ALL, or at least HEAR about it. It was FINALLY time for Dee to have a day where others helped her accomplish something she set out to do.

The day was hair-raising and intense. We had those who kept telling Dee along with myself if she needed ANYTHING, just ask. I had never seen an outpouring of friendship before. I know it's just a game, but some people really came through and showed unselfishness to help Dee along.

I don't have nor will I waste your time explaining the fine details, but Dee and I lost friends yesterday.

First off Dee lost a so-called friend she helped go through THREE times of attempting his 10K likes. I mean THREE FULL DAYS of attempts. When he found out he was not in Dee's family during her famps, he PMed her and told her how DISAPPOINTED he was. Afterall... everytime he runs a bomb, he ALWAYS bombs her. Dee actually had him lined up to go into her Happy Hour Famp, but after a disappointing email of him running her down and telling her how SELFISH she was, she took him out. Then he puts DeeDee's NAME in his status telling how SELFISH she has become.

I'm NOT going to mention his name, but after folks realized what he did they explained to me, he spends MOST of his time trying to talk women into viewing his pic folder of his nude shots of himself. See... this way it looks like the women WANT to see this. Trust me dude... I talked to the women... they DON'T want to see... it takes awhile to expand the screen to get a good look from what I understand.

The other was a woman... Not going to mention her name either. She SBed Dee last night and said she had SBed Dee EARLY in the morning and was ignored. I don't know how many of you have actually gone through what Dee went through yesterday, but most times your SB is going crazy. Some shouts get lost in the shuffle, but I can ASSURE you... unless it is some perverted IM.. Dee ignores.. NOBODY. Dee explained she would NEVER intentionally ignore her... but the woman was PERSISTANT. I walked by Dee's office and saw her in tears. Dee is a VERY tender-hearted person and her feelings get hurt VERY easily. She was hurt to think that someone would think she would intentionally ignore her.

I came back down to my mancave and SBed this woman and asked her to PLEASE get off of Dee's back. I explained to her Dee did lay down for a nap early that morning, and I sat at her desk and kept an eye on things to make sure nothing major happened and her blings didn't run out. I end up getting fussed at and told I would be reported to TOS for being on another person's account and would be deleted.

THIS is a woman... of whom I ALWAYS made sure if she ran bling... I went to her page and did the clicking of all the buttons. No, I don't know that we ever really SPOKE to each other, but the Fubar relationship so-to-speak was there. Now I am blocked and I guess TOS is going over her complaint to see if I should be deleted or not.... I guess she was NotAFriend... afterall.

I'm sorry to my family and friends I am normally taking care of this morning. I didn't have time to do my normal routine today. I have some thinking to do.

It was people like these two that made me walk away from Fubar for four years... now... you may win again. I came back because this is where Dee is most of the time. I want to be where my wife is so this was where I was. With Dee's health issues of late she doesn't get out much. This is her entertainment... these are her friends... so I was here.

Now... these bottom feeders who only care about themselves... may win again. There may be ONE less person around to be a threat to help keep you at the top. ENJOY.

To those of you who mean the most to me on here... I am going to spend this week thinking. I am sure I will be around from time to time to say hello, but I don't think it will be like before. I was JUST starting to enjoy this again and these two people mainly along with a few others... destroyed it. Most of you really helped Dee through a hard time in her life when I was unable to be around for her. I thank you and I love you for it.

With the issues Dee and myself have had there isn't money to spend on this site for us. We depended on the kindness of others and when enough kindness was shown, days like Dee had yesterday was possible. Those who helped in THAT way... I thank you too... I won't mention names because I don't want to accidentally leave anyone out.

Thank you to those who helped and showed kindness and friendship... to those like the two I mentioned... enjoy your game.

Maybe I'll see ya'll again someday... last time was only... four years

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