So, I have been seeing all these drama bulletins lately. To be honest, unless it personally affects me I don't get involved and I really don't care. I will always be here for all of friends to talk to. My heart truly goes out to those that are harmed in anyway by the drama. It is heartbreaking to see a good person hurt by lies or by someone just being an ass.
I personally think that if you cheat or knowingly spread malicious untruths about someone you should have your account deleted. However, before deleting any accounts you should have proof beyond a reasonable doubt that the offender deserves this punishment. I realize that with over a million people on fubar it is hard for the bouncers and other administration staff to keep up with everyone and everything. I am a patient person. I can wait...for a bit for someone to do the right thing.
As I said before I will always be here for all you my friends. However, do not assume that I am immediately going to be on your side. If you just need to vent of course I am on your side. But, if you expect me to attack someone or support your bulletin blindly think again. I will work to learn the truth before I decide to take any action. I never pick a fight but I will finish the fight if I choose to do so. If this offends some of you and you would like to remove yourself from my friends list please feel to do so. I am sorry that you feel that we can't be friends because I do not blindly follow you.
I am my own person and I make my own decisions. There are three sides to every story. Your side, their side, and then in the middle is the truth. The truth of the actual story without any emotional spin on it. I will always try to be fair but if I believe you to be wrong I will tell you. I might even walk away if I believe the drama to be high school bullshit.
I will also tell you this: if I choose to support you or defend you in anyway I will do it without lowering myself to the level of a name calling moron. If it upsets you that I won't call some one dirty names or leave tons of curse words in my message to them...GROW UP! I am perfectly capable of voicing my opinion without acting like I am twelve. A calm, cool, well collected head wins the war.
So in closing, if you try to drag me into some bullshit drama I am done with you. I will be more than happy to listen to you and offer you my shoulder to cry on whenever needed. BUT, if you involve me in any way in crap I am done with you.
We are all adults (supposedly anyway) so lets just have fun!! Thanks for letting me vent this way. I love all of you!!
xoxoxoxo,
Trish
