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OK, this vent goes out to the men out there that really feel that the best thing to do with a female is lie about things. Where they live, what they do, what they have and don't have. What brought this on? Someone I have know for MANY years has been telling me he's in California, been living here for 3 years. Supposedly he's in South Dakota visiting family. Found out today, he has never LEFT Dakota, he's been there the whole time. Were you keeping me on the line till you could decide how to get to me, or did you ever really want to get to me. After everything we talked about, experienced together, and you really have to pull this shit. It hurts like hell, but I am just not going to tolerate the bullshit anymore. You show up on my door with a HUGE apology, I MIGHT talk to you. Till then, fuck off!
I'm a very emotional and loving person; when I get treated like shit, it hits me hard, and it's difficult for me to trust someone again after they blow my trust, second chances are rarely given because my empathy just can't tolerate the crap.
You are interested in someone, and would like to be with them (supposedly), and then the lies begin. Maybe it can't be helped? You understand that lying is ALOT more difficult than just telling the truth. I will let you all in on a secret. If you feel like you need to lie because you don't think I'm going to like you, that is the wrong way to think, plus your low self esteem is not going to make me feel weak in the knees. Think of the Jennifer Lopez song, My Love Don't Cost A Thing. I could give a flying fuck if you have a million dollars. All I care about is you can pay your own bills. Tell me you live one place, but live in another; you have boats and cars, you have a used car.
Understand this, assholes: I DON'T APPRECIATE THE DRAMA AND THE BULLSHIT. I have enough drama at home dealing with a parent with Parkinson's, plus my own pain isssues. Just be honest with me, people, and read my profile for what will get you kicked to the curb. It's so much easier to just be kind, and you never know, you might just snag the best thing that ever happened to you if you play your cards right.
