Why is it that mothers carry the baby for 9 months and deal with all the set backs, pain, sickness, even some have came close to death experiences due to childbirthing and even some have died during labor, but yet she is a horrible mom because she doesn’t take her daughter to see her dad, because he’s broke, because he doesn’t have a job, so automatically it must be her responsibility to make sure he gets visitation with his child right?
Tell me why it is that so many mothers go through so much, then the fathers talk shit about the childs mother 24/7, saying that they are horrible mothers, they do this wrong and this wrong and just repeatedly complain about how it’s not fair to them. But yet the child lives with their mother, NOT the father. And relies solely on the mother for care.
Tell me why there are so many dads that just don’t give a fuck? They don’t pay child support, ’because it’s not there place to help". Tell me how the fuck that is? Did she get herself pregnant? I’m pretty sure it takes something from you? Correct me if I’m wrong. But both parties are responsiblie, it’s the fucking law, so stop bitching about.. "babymama drama this, babymama drama that" and just remember that behind EVERY bitch is a STUPID ASS MOTHERFUCKER that made her that way!
Tell me why the hell men think that they have it so hard when it comes to children? Tell me why men think that its okay to go off on their pregnant girlfriend/ex/wife when something doesn’t go their way? How about if you were so damn worried about a certain doctors appointment you would have called, or if you really wanted to see her you would have tried.. but you didnt. So oops, too bad. I’m not your keeper, I’m not here to remind you that she’s here and she’s yours. SORRY.. I already do enough, how about you pick up the rest that’s your job. Thanks.
The child lives with her mother, and you have visitation EVERY OTHER weekend, and you complain about that? EVERY OTHER WEEKEND?! That means Monday-Friday she is always with her mother and every other weekend and then the other weekend you have her.. why you complaining? Looks like you got the good end out of the deal right? Would you like to keep her every other month you prick?
Why is it that 9 months in OUR bodies, sickness, pain, discomfort, all the setbacks, all the drama, all the heartache and the stupid shit we deal with when dealing with the father, she comes out looking JUST LIKE his stupid ass and her first words are daddy most of the time? OH but sorry sweetie, daddy isn’t around.
Admit it, in most cases where there is child support ordered, it’s MEN having to pay it. Don’t get me wrong there are dead beat moms out there.. but to be honest with you, the number of those don’t compare to all the PIECE OF SHIT dads. Stop looking at your child as something to pick up chicks with, because "OMG YOU HAVE A LITTLE GIRL, HOW CUTE IS THAT?"
How about you step back and stop whining about how it’s so hard for you and take a walk in HER shoes....
What women go thru in pregnancy....
1- Whatever life we had, it’s gone now.. officially
2- We can’t drink, no longer go out on the weekends and if we do it’s very rare
3- Because we feel like complete utter shit most of the time, morning/ anytime sickness is a bitch.. throwing up 2-5 times a day everyday if NOT more doesn’t really feel good.
4- No matter how shitty we feel, we still have to work... we can’t call out sick. We gotta go in and bear it, because we still have to bring in the money. And were sick constantly.. so it’s not like we can keep using that excuse at work.
5- Some of us are forced to work up until we are about to go into the hospital labor and delivery... YEAH try working 30-50 lbs. heavier for 8 hours a day 5 days a week. It’s not much fun.
6- Heartburn, back pain, constipation, labor and delivery--pain in the asssss.. stretch marks, vericose veins.. there are tons and tons of other shitty stuff that comes with pregnancy.. I could go on for days.
7- Loss of all dignity, every doctor in your town have seen every thing you have to offer just about... not much left to the imagination.
8- You turn into one big science project, pincushion. Getting pricked with a needle constantly. Drawing blood to run tests.
9- Not to mention hormones?? Have we gone there yet!? I am an emotional freaking wreck!
What men go through in pregnancy....
Oh wait nothing..
Nothing affects them until after the child is born.. and then half of the time it still doesn’t affect them.
If your a WORKING mom repost this
This is for us.
If your an AWESOME dad that takes responsibility repost this
Because we know NOT all men are pieces of shit.
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AND if your a dead beat dad.. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.. and stop WHINING.
And if you don’t fall in either category and you don’t agree with what I said.. then you should have stopped reading it a while back...
