Ok 6yrs ago i met my so to be ex hubby.we dated awhile(ok 3months)and then we moved in together.it was really nice for a long time.3yrs goes by and we find out we are having a baby.its all cool.then 3 mos.after the baby was born again found out we were having another baby.you thank hubby be happy right??? well your be wrong.thats when hell broke loose.then after a year we found out were having our lil girl.the first thing out of his mounth was "get rid of it." now my question is this:when you know that the other person wants kids and you dont,why marry them???