After the last guy I actually met offline went sour, I swore off meeting guys off here. So about 3 months ago I find a really great guy online so we talk online and nothing more. A while later he asks when he gets out of the army and moves back home will I come and make a life with him. Ok my first thought is why don't we meet first. See how it goes. Well it's all good until I get to the part where I think he should fly here to meet me first since I have to take care of my disabled mother full time and don't get alot of time off. After telling him this he is like "I understand totally". Now he won't talk to me at all. I wanna let people know I am not giving up my family for a guy I don't even know. No I am not saying all guys are like that, but just a few.
