What causes guys to treat women the way they do? It's a question I hear over and over and over posted on blogs and bulletions on this and other websites. I admit, guys today can be jerks and treat women like shit; abusive (mentally and physically), unfaithful, possesive, and only wanting to get in your pants. I try not to act this way, I was raised in the country with a country boys values of respecting women. The answer to this mind boggling question is very very simple, and no it's not men are pigs. The answer is that you, the women, allow them to act this way. Everytime you give these guys that act like this what they want, you tell them and other guys, it's ok to treat us like shit, we won't do anything to stop you. The truth be told, yall, women, have so much power and control over us that yall could actually make a huge difference in the way men treated women, if you all got together and said you won't take it anymore. If a guy acts like a jerk, leave him alone, if he's a "player", send him to another table. But to many times, oh he's cute, hot, rich, or whatever, and giving him what he wants, tells 1000 other guys, thats how a woman wants to be treated. So until you change your actions, don't post bulletions or blogs I can see asking why that guy treated you like that, or why are guys suck assholes. Most guys are, sad but true, but you allow them to be.
