SHE's blog: "S.H.E."

If I sat here all day, watching all the "women" scrolling by...  If I sat here all day and actually paid attention to any of the statuses...  I really have to be honest and tell you that I most certainly wouldn't take any of you "ladies" seriously.  There are few exceptions, of which I've had the privilege to meet.  But other than them, the rest of you are just sirloin, t-bone and prime rib ready to be eaten by the next slobbering idiot that comes your way.

I've seen far too many pretty women on here who put far too much on this site.  Yes, I am aware that this is a supposedly adult site.  But considering the level of drama that goes on in here, I'm wondering how many of you are truly adults and not juvenile personalities in adult bodies.

Do you REALLY feel the need to post T&A shots for someone to "respect" you?  Does it REALLY make you feel better about yourself when a drooling dog of a male humps your leg at the get-go and begs to see your NSFW pics?  In all honesty, a lot of you are rather "mature" women who have a kid or two, or more.  I use "mature" as a kind word, but face it.  Some of you are just too damned old to be having your junk hanging out.

Newsflash!  MILF is NOT a compliment.  If someone just wants to fuck you, then what else is there for you?  Flat on your back with another mouth to feed if you continue down the road of self-destruction.  And that's the GOOD side.  The bad side of it is a whole hell of a lot worse.

Do you respect yourself?  If so, then HOW MUCH?  Take a stand dammit.  Quit being the proverbial brood mare and grow a fucking spine for once.  Use the word "NO".  Trust me, it works.  Otherwise, you just end up lonely (except for your kids surrounding you) and lacking a hell of a lot of self-respect.

An attractive woman is a woman capable of standing on her own when she wants to, but able to lean on someone else when she needs to.  She is intelligent and oh so very vulnerable.  We fall for the tricks that life plays on us because we fail to see the lessons to be learned.  People will always come and go as they please, more than ready to use and abuse every willing body that's made available to them.  Do you REALLY want to be available, knowing that it's most likely just a one-nighter and you'll never hear from him again?

How many attention whores must we tolerate before we start standing up for ourselves?  I get so sick and tired of seeing beautiful women, possibly smart women, BEG for blings, rates, comments, fans, adds, etc.  I see it scroll by in the marquee and in the ticker.  I see it in the blast and spotlight boxes.  Enough is enough.  Show YOURSELF the love and grow the fuck up.  Quit trying to be the most popular girl in school.  We all know where THAT gets you.

I'm sure you noticed that I put the words "women" and "ladies" in quotations earlier in my little rant.  There are reasons for it.  One, I use the two terms very loosely when talking about the females around here.  What I would really like to call the majority of you isn't very nice at all, so I go with a more tactful route.

Secondly, how many female profiles are actually females here anyway?  I've seen plenty enough on here to ignore those profiles that don't have salutes, simply because most of the "hot chicks" were really guys getting their rocks off.  The lesson to be learned, all in all, is be careful with yourself, how you put YOU out there.

Do you REALLY want to be another notch on the headboard?  Or do you want to mean SOMETHING to someone?  You have to start somewhere.  Try being SOMETHING to yourself first.  Everything else will fall into place the way it should in a positive world.

Just quit whoring yourselves for shit that doesn't mean a god damned thing.  But I'm not your mother, I'm not your sister, I'm not your friend.  I'm not YOU.  I'm only me.  And I once was where you are.  I'm sick of being on my back, and decided to stand on my own two feet.  If the boys around here think I have my head up my ass when I say no...  All I have to say is...  SOMEONE has to do it.  If they don't like it, they can move on to someone else more willing to be their slut or whore.

WOMAN up god dammit!  Say no for once in your miserable life.  Stand up for what's right, not lay down for what's easy.  Respect yourself.  LOVE yourself.

Posted by CHELLE