Recently I read a mumms about if you think you can find love on fubar. I found it interesting the comments people made. I think that love is different for many reasons, as many as there are people and can be found in the most unusual places, even on here. Love is the most wonderful feeling we have for anyone or thing we desire. I read that for every two miles there is one person we are compatible with. Compatible isn't love but it is a good start.
We get what we deserve when it comes to love. We project who we are and what we are. Knowing who we are, what we want, good self esteem, the amount of respect we have for ourselves can determine if we find real love.
Lots of people think they found love, when all they found was the heat of passion, happens to mice every twenty one days. There are people who are lonely and will settle for what they think is love. People can be desperate, those are the victims. I think we all have been there at one time or another. The key is to learn from our mistakes... see I mentioned our mistakes, not someone else mistakes. Take responsibility for your own actions. Do not set yourself up. I am sure you have heard those who say... all those bastards are out for one thing or they are only going to use you, everyone tries to take advantage of me. Take charge of your own life, quit being the victim, stop bitching how bad the world is.
Again I say, you reap what you sow. So who's fault is it really, take a look in the mirror.
When love hits you, you will know. Take it slow and most of all show your heart and look into their heart. Have fun and enjoy your time together. Give each other space, most of all trust. If you can not trust, you will never have love. I have wondered a lot why is it that lot's of guys are only after one thing and tell the ladies what ever they want to hear. Then I think I may have found the answer. Since our personalities are developed the first five years of our lives, who was the person who impressed you the most?
We learn from what we see and from the action of others.
