I HAVE LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO THAT YOU NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING AND NEVER LISTEN TO RUMMORS OR GOSSIP. IF YOU HEAR SOMETHING OR THINK YOU KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT SOMEONE,ASK THEM. DON'T JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS, THIS IS HOW SO MANY RELATIONSHIPS AND FRIENDSHIPS ARE RUINED AND FALL APART. BE SURE YOU KNOW THAT WHAT YOU " THINK" OR HAVE HEARD IS TRUE, THEN YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOUR FEELING, BUT IF YOU JUMP THE GUN AND IT IS FALSE THEN YOU COULD RUIN A GREAT RELATIONSHIP OR FRIENDSHIP OVER SOMETHING THAT NEVER WAS. SO BECAREFUL MY FRIENDS ALWAYS ASK AND TALK ABOUT IT FIRST. RUMORS AND GOSSIP AND HEAR SAY CAN REALLY HURT YOU. BUT ABOVE ALL ELSE " TRUST" IN YOUR FRIENDS AND LOVERS BECAUSE IF YOU LOSE THE TRUST THERE IS NO TURNING BACK AND YOU MAY LOSE THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU.