So I have this friend and she has been talking to this guy for the last 7 months... He seems like a nice guy at first... I am worried that my friend is going to get hurt... He says he loves her, but that word is so missed used.... He wants her to spend all her free time with him and then tells her to see other people... He allowed to go out to strip clubs and hang out with his buddies and come to see her whenever... And we the girls try to go out and do thing he gets mad... How is that right.. He thinks that if you are married then it's okay to cheat as long as you tell your wife... That right there should tell you what kind of guy he is... She really cares for him and right now they are just friends with benfits.... I am worried that he is just playing her and she so nice that she won't stop him from doing it.... Did I tell you that my friend was married for the last 9 years and this is her first time really being single... I feel that this guy is only going to hurt her and that she needs to put herself first.... He just told her that maybe they shouldn't talk for a few months.... And that maybe there paths will cross again later on in life.. She doesn't want to lose him and thinks she can be friends with him and have no feeling invovled... I think she need to leave him alone... He is no good for her.. Tell me what you think she should do... Thanxs Amber..