This is in response to that lovely question "So,what are you looking for in a man?" And besides the usual answer, heart, stomach, kidneys, etc...here's what I want. Oxymorons and all. Just because you know what you want, doesn't mean you are going to get it, but at least, for once, I can say I know what I want. ^.^ LOL.
Gentle enough to not make me fear his touch, yet tough enough to protect us. Sweet enough to temper angry words with flowers and kisses, yet strong enough to keep my restless soul bound to him.
One willing to be my master, my slave, my lover, my equal. One to teach me as well as hunger to learn from me. Implicit trust flowing betwixt us. Nary a moment of doubt.
To listen to me, to laugh at me, to help me find my laugh again, to sweep me away, and keep me grounded, to drive me crazy and bring me salvation. To soar with me, to keep me anchored. To speak words of gibberish, to speak without words.
Love my complications, adore my simplicity. Dream of my caress, and wake me with a touch. To feed my hungry spirit, and nurse from my ministrations. Someone for me to coddle, someone to spoil me.
Promises kept, taboos broken. Tease me when I cry, wrapped in his arms so gently. The gentleman, the man. Push me into the world I fear, hold my hand through my terrors. Inspire the romantic, expect with the realist, agree with the cynic, hope with the optimist, cry with the clown.
Never leave me alone, refrain from suffocation. Tender notes hidden away, jokes at the ready. Fight me, love me, need me, hold me, kiss me, cry on me, frustrate me, complement me.
Has an artist in his soul, paint on his fingers, song on his lips, sweat upon his brow, eye in a viewfinder, a poem in his heart, scars of battles lost, tattoos of memories gained, any or maybe all.
Snores, snorts, chuckles, giggles, guffaws, growls, purrs, bites, licks, nibbles, whispers.
I want to be his nectar, his bane, his breath and him to be my sustenance, my desire, my pulse.
to be his chef, his masseuse, his reason, his insanity, his maid, his Goddess, his pet, with a shy smile, a stubborn streak, a giving soul, a nurturing spirit, a curvy body, a wanton libido, a healing touch, a ready kiss, welcoming arms.
