I keep asking myself that. Someone whom I was really interested in referred me here, and I decided to hang around after she flaked. Although it's kinda weird to have to block the person that referred you. But when someone profoundly disrespects you, you can't really ignore it.
From what I gather, a lot of folks here gather points to do fu-things. I'm not really into that and even if I was, my schedule between school & work wouldn't allow it. I am a bit amazed at all of the going-ons around that stuff though. Can someone explain to me what a fu-girlfriend/wife is, or what it means to be fu-owned? No dis, that that seems very unreal to me.
I'm really not on here expecting to meet anyone; I'm open to being friends (as much as one can in cyberland) with people, and possibly more. In terms of sheer numbers you can only interact with so many people. I have some fu-friends and already feel like I can't keep up with them. So we'll see how that goes.
What I've done thus far is to look at people's profiles - that's interesting in itself, but if I'm really being honest with myself here I'd say that I just like looking at women's photos that I find attractive.
I rate everyone as 10s regardless; it takes a lot of courage to be yourself in our looks-obsessed society. Beauty come is all shapes, sizes and ways so I'm not dissing any of that.
I do however stay away from profiles that seem unsavory; folks with hateful images or such usually get ignored or blocked.
I like the fact that other people out here share my interest in Kink & BDSM. It's very refreshing to see. People tend to put you in the weird/strange category without even bothering to find out what you're about, so it's cool to see others who are like me.
It's a big part of me but not the only part, so if you're interested in knowing more about that part of me (or the rest), just ask. I'm going to post more pix and blogs about that part me here, but I'm going to keep them private in reserve for someone who's interested.
So here I am in fuberland, posting for the first time. Let's see where it goes...
