After a while to look around, it appears that Fubar is an online meat market more than a social anything, but that's not all bad. The younger folks need a place to market their wares and attract partners of whatever level they have an interest toward. At my age, that stuff is just a fond memory and the equipment is worn out enough I couldn't get much done anyway.
The main reason I am even online is for the money and I don't make any excuses. I know that turns a lot of people off, but I couldn't care less. It's only the ones who share my quest that will even contact me.
I should add that I have been quite successful even though I made my share of mistakes. The biggest one was putting all my eggs in one backet and when it shut off my $6,000 a month income, I had to start all over.
The good part was I learned what worked and I am already well along the path to regaining what I had, only diversified so it won't dissapear overnight again.
So the bottom line is I can coexist in any environment and I have enough going for me I have no reason to be pushy, so I hope that makes the feeling mutual.
See you online!