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IN MY OPINION

Everyone always talks about how so-and-so is a great lover or a lousy lover. What do they mean? Of course, not everyone is in agreement about what makes one lover amazing and another abysmal.But I do think there are some great, universal sex truths. Here are nine commandments for being an amazing lover, plus clues that your bedmate's repertoire could use some improvement. Laws of the Great Lover 1. He's super-observant. A great lover doesn?t make love to you as if you?re a generic woman; he talks to you and finds out what you want. He listens and learns from your pleasurable moans, body tension and breathing patterns. 2. He's a good talker. Great sex goes way beyond the physical. A truly amazing lover stimulates your mind and emotions. He tells you that you?re beautiful from head to toe — and you believe him. He makes you feel sexy and desirable, which turns you on that much more! 3. He has great hands. Fingertips to palms, he understands the power of touch and lets his fingers do the walking all over your body. He knows when to be firm and when to be gentle. 4. He's down with female anatomy. A great sex partner doesn't muck around your genitals as if he has no clue where your clitoris is. He slowly but surely finds the right spots to stimulate, and does so in a way that makes you relax and fully enjoy the experience. 5. He's excited by you. A great lover is fully satisfied only when you are satisfied. 6. He kisses well — and a lot. No slobber. No teeth-knocking. No overaggressive tongue. He knows when to shower you with light kisses and when to plant a deep and passionate one. He also knows that a kiss is not meant for lips alone. 7. He loves giving oral sex. When he dives down below, he's in for the long haul. When he gives you oral sex, you don't feel as though he's doing you a favor — you feel as if you're doing him one! 8. He's imaginative. He conjures up fantasies, tries fun new positions, and brings home sex toys that keep you surprised and aroused. He understands and respects your limits; you know that his sexy ideas are ways for you two to connect. 9. He makes you the star of the show. During sex, he can't keep his eyes off you. After sex, he wants to hold you. It's intense, flattering and unforgettable. The Bad Lover Simply put, a bad lover is the opposite of everything listed above. He's too rough or too gentle. He's stuck in a routine. He's uncommunicative and insensitive to what you're trying to tell him physically or verbally. He doesn't seem very interested in your pleasure. Any bedmate who makes you feel as if he could take or leave the whole sex thing is certainly not campaigning for the Best Lover Ever award — and doesn't deserve a return engagement. It takes two great lovers to create unforgettable fireworks in the sack. taking applications,lmao, im a bad girl spank me, hehehehe
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