What is optional?
Love is not. Due to the emotions toward another human being, that is showing affection. If you are as lucky as I, you will find love, (not the mushy stuff, but ultimate love), in the oddest places. 9 out of 10 times this is how it is. It took many long years to see what true love is...the ability to have a true friend.
Now, a ture friend s a person that, no matter what, is in your corner. They have a personality all their own and nothing will change that. Some people say I have many friends. Bull. A wise man once told me "That if you find just ONE true friend in life you will feel spectacular. I couldn’t see thatthen, baut as time went on and I grew more mature, acouple of freinds leftand even though I seemed fine on the outside, inside I was completely obliterated. I learned something that I thought I already "knew", friends; TRUE friends are not an option. They are needed in life to help, protect and love one another. This is why I feel that I can not be destroyed, for with friends you are with them forever.
