Ames FE to Awesome Bud's blog: "What is the difference"

I never thought that I'd write this.  But I don't understand what the difference between me an her is.  We are both married yet somehow she gets more bling from you.  Higher credit bling.  Or is it that I don't do what she does?  Guess I'll never know will I?  I did the one thing that I swore I wouldn't do.  I started to fall in love on here.  It won't happen again.