Well I've compiled a list of what I want in a man... some of them may seem shallow but who cares?
1. has to be taller than me
2. has to be mature
3. has to have a sense of humor
4. has to like tats, either on me or on themselves
5. has to appreciate bigger women like myself
6. has to like kids
7. has to want kids
8. has to be willing to come to me for awhile, until I can get my shit here cleared up
9. has to be willing to work
10. has to understand that I have some issues that will be there no matter what
11. has to care and love me (that's the biggest one)
I'm sure I'll think of others, but for now, this is what I want, and I won't waiver from it!