RonDameron's blog: "What I'm looking for in a relationship"

  What your getting ready to read I wrote a while back and f that on trying to type that over and over again lol...so I copy and pasted it like any smart man would do!!!>>>!!!
  
  I am definitely a person who takes personal gratification in placing others needs before my own and people/relationships are very important to me.  I believe that true love means caring about the needs of others and wanting what's best for them.  Don't get me wrong though, like my G-ma has been telling for yrs...(which whom is the heart and soul of me) "While you may be speaking from the heart... do it with your future in mind".  Helping people can sometimes hurt you :(  I wish people came with instruction manuals saying "This is how I really am after 6 months... and if you were smart you wouldn't even try to get into my pants much less want a future with me" lol

  I like to be funny and make people laugh but when it comes time to be serious... yeah, they call that "life"!  I believe in learning from life's sideway curveballs instead of letting them get the best of me.  Sometimes some things may be a little harder to forget or get over but if you think about... while things may seem out of control or hard to deal with... remember the times in your life when everything was going so good for you and you felt like you were on top of the world?  That is what life is really all about... you can't go up but so high before eventually having to come down.  One of the distinct differences in people is how you deal with it.
 
  I believe that my ideal match would be a selfless, caring, loving, and compassionate woman. I am very comfortable in sharing all of her struggles and successes with me. I am a affectionate person, by fault, and I believe that verbal intimacy is very important and I could only hope she feels the same. I am not a perfect person nor do I expect her to be, but I would expect us to be able to love one another past our weaknesses and faults and  be able to humble ourselves and apologize when we have hurt or wronged one another. Our relationship should not be a competition, but a spiritual union, where I feel it is my duty to shower her with unconditional love, respect, and compassion. In return, I could only hope that she would do the same for me. In the end I want us to provide ourselves with a home for one another where we can feel loved, cherished, respected, and not taken for granted. I love making my woman laugh and smile so I expect the same in return.  I know I sound a little foward in what I'm looking for but if you think about it... what do I have to lose by saying it?  Been through the trials and tribulations of life and now I just want to be happy in a healthy relationship with someone who is looking for the same thing out of life as I am.  I am a outgoing and an independant person when it comes to life but am not above asking for help if I really need it.  What are friends for right?   

  Btw... That was my heart speaking. At the same time, after past relationships, I'm not one too rush anything anymore like we all used to do when we were younger.  Take it easy and if it was meant to be... there's not a damn thing you can do to stop it!  But don't forget... take it too slow and you might have lost out on the one thing that would have made your life complete.