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What Happened To The CT?

When I was first introduced to Lost Cherry (Cherry Tap nowadays), I was a huge skeptic. "This place is MUCH BETTER than Myspace!!", I was told. And yes, I was gettin' highly annoyed and tired of Myspace and the culture surrounding it. But in a short time, I was highly impressed and enjoyed this place on a daily. Now, I'm seeing this place slowly spiral downward the same or a similar path as Myspace. The whole "quantity vs. quality" battle. The emphasis on the shallow and superficial over the true qualities that make people worth getting to know. And the sad part about it is that we're all supposed to be "adult" about it all. I haven't seen this many "cliques" and childish behavior since my days in junior high and high school. The "best" people on here are determined only by the shallowest of things. And most of the time, the most physically attractive of us on here are put on a pedestal, and only known and appreciated for our pictures, or how far we will go in those pics. And if you got to know some of the "top" individuals, their pictures tell only a small part of the whole. Now I can't talk for everybody, since I only have so many people on my friend list, and most of them are female (I just don't get along with other men as well as I do with women. Just me I guess). But the women who are bombarded everyday with comments and compliments about their physical beauty are actually real cool and genuine people. But nowadays, I see a lot of em so caught up in being the "sexy bitch" of Cherry Tap. And as much as I want to see someone I've gotten to know get any type of praise or recognition, too see so many bend over backwards to show how sexy they are, and not show how great of a person they are is disheartening. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to bring anybody down. I'm just thrown off that at a time of year where almost everybody should have the giving and caring vibe, it seems to be a more selfish vibe dominating the scene. "You gotta rate and comment me!!". "I need to make it to the next level before New Years!!". "Help me win this week's contest!!". C'mon guys. What happened to all those incredible women I got to know? I have A LOT of people on my friends list, and I take blame for losing contact with a lot of you (being on the road can do that sometimes). But what happened to being down to earth? What happened to just having a good laugh? What happened to good conversation? Now, I have been minimized to being just a "fan" to a lot of you. And I will continue to be a fan to everyone on my friends list, but could you throw me a bone? I'm trying my best not to put one woman over another based on her amount of pictures or Cherry level. But it seems that the way to do things here is to just keep on snappin' those provocative pics, and keep the 10's a-comin'. We have levels and ratings, and all kinds of fun interactive things here, but tell me honestly, what makes Cherry Tap so much different and better than Myspace? I'm starting to lose perspective. But hey, that's just my opinion.....my word ain't law....
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