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     This is a view i developed a long time ago, and i wanted to publish it somewhere before someone else stole it. Unfortunately i don't the degrees needed to get my hypothesis published in a scientific journal, but a wise man once said "The internet has given every asshole in the world a voice..." so i figured why not use mine. that said here it is.

      Walt Disney Syndrome is my answer to the question "Why do most relationships fail now and days?". most of us were raised on television, and Disney are a parental favorite, because they are "QUALITY FAMILY PROGRAMS" with a strong moral message, but is this true? In any given Disney movie you find a beautiful "Princess" the classic "damsel in distress" who needs rescuing, so her "Prince Charming". You also find story of true love, heroics, and of-cores a happily ever after, however, that is the problem. Look at the world around you: do you see any "Princesses" in need of rescuing? How About any "Prince Charmings"? Hell no you don't , you see flawed people, that's reality.

      Disney two or three generations of girls believing that they are a "Princess" and their "Prince Charming" is going to save them and make their lives perfect, and they will live "HAPPILY EVER AFTER". That is why half of why relationships usually Don't work. When you realize your man can't "rescue" you you get scared and run away.  If your life is messed up a man can't fix it for you, he can help but you have to do your part too. Men are people too, they have faults, problems, and imperfections, they make mistakes and don't have all the answers. In the real world there are no prefect people, and no one can fix you but you.

       It's time to have your bubble busted... Guess what "Princess" it ain't gonna happen. First off Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, and Belle were virgins when they met their "Prince Charmings".  Next you are not a princess, was your dad a King? was your mom a Queen? "No" then you aren't a fucking "Princess", you are just another fucked up American girl deal with it. Thirdly, there are no prefect men , men are just as fucked up as you are.  Lastly in the real world no one can fix your problems but you. So grow up put on your big girl panties and get real.

      Now for the guys, guys suffer from this too, and here's how.  Disney has an equal number of guys convened that if they find a girl with problems and "rescue" her she will love them eternally and live "HAPPILY EVER AFTER". In the real world, however, that isn't the case; usually if a girl needs to be "rescued" she has made a lot of bad choices, and is likely to continue this pattern in her life. Girls are people too they are just as fucked up as we are, if you want a "sweet little subservient virgin princess" convert to Islam and move to a country with "Shia Law" or convert to Amish and move to Pennsylvania, because that is about the only place you will find one with a great deal of ease.

      OK guys it's your turn... wake the fuck up, you can't fix a girl, she is who and what she is and you aren't going to change that. First off you can't do it all she has to help herself. Second if she expects you to fix every thing what happens when you can't?; she runs. Next "Prince Charming" ain't out on the weekends parting, and trying to get laid.  Lastly you sure as fuck aren't "Prince Charming" you are just another fucked up American boy, accept it and move on.

     In conclusion, this is the "REAL WORLD" not a Disney movie, people have problems, flaws, and imperfections, that is just how it is. Life isn't prefect, people are not perfect either. having said that you have to make your own "HAPPILY EVER AFTER", and this can only happen through team work, trust, honesty, friendship and love. When you realize this your life may not be a perfect Disney fairy tail, but it can be happy. I hope this helped you out. Embrace what you have if you want to be happy.

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