hello ppl here is another blog from me its a real one this time lol the day was jan 6 07 and i decided to go visit my dad for who i ahvent seen for years on end so i called him up to see what he was doing and made plans to go visit him for the first time in like 5 years or so and were up there where he lives and we chatted watched tv and looked at pic that he took and the one pic he had is a gas station called sheetz that when the gas prices were so low that unleaded gas was 97 cents a gallon can u believe that and now look at the prices 2.29 a gallon these days may differ from place to place in the world but hey that shows how things change lol well back to the visit we were there for 3 hrs wiatch was cool i got to spend time with him again he showed me his guns his games for ps2 and he has something i want and i probly will get is a vcr dvd combo in turn u can record vhs movies on to dvds from that device aint that cool so anyway i cant wait till the nxt time i get to see him cuz u never know with him when i will get to see him again cuz the story goes like this when i was a wee young lad lol he and my mom didnt get along so well fights and blaming for this and that so he left and we didnt see him for thirteen years we were beginning to wounder about him and then my sister decide to do a search for him first things went slow she got names from a name data base in witch she got like 15 names with the same name and she wrote letters to them in return none of them were him till like almost to the last one she sent out she got a phone call and it was him she wasnt home so he left a msg saying who he was and everything i think i jumped the gun here a little but that was that time and another time was that i just had gotten home from baltimore maryland from a church gettaway retreat type thing and i get home and my mom asked me guess who i just got off the phone with and i said who and she said that she just got off the phone with mrs bucsh i think that how it was spelled but she told me that and i was like yeah and and she said that it was my dads wife at the time and that he was living down in baltamore maryland for somtime and that he was working down there and he got injured while on the job and broke his hip fell off a scalfiding something like that i guess i dont know how that is spelled but he did that and he was on cruches and i guess was homeless at the time i was down there so i might have seen him and not reconized him lol the lady who called found old pictures of us and mom and she woundered who we were and stuff but dont ask me how she found out our number and my mom told me that i got mad and started to cry and say well if i would have known that i would have missed the bus and stayed down there to look for him and stuff and then my sister was like well now we got something here and then did a search thing for those names like i mentioned earlier so she did that and then he called and left the msg and then she called him back and she was nervouse to say the least and then we went to visit him for the first time in 13 years and he was staying on his brothers hunting camp land at the time and we went to visit him there and it was a nice place so we visited and made planes for to hang out again and we did all that so he came to visit us again and then we took pics and stuff mom and him got the devorce that was so long overdue lol but that got done he moved into town then i started to hang out with him it was summer time and we did the father son thing he took me fishing and things went to to restuaraunts to eat he took me to meet his dad my grandfather for the very first time in my life witch was preety cool he was funny we went to a big sale like flee market type place thing where they sell everything we went there then one time he took me to his brothers house i rode a three wheeler for the first time that was fun i went around the yard real slow cuz it was a manual and i didnt know anything about them so i went slow lol but i had fun we stayed there for a couple hours then went back to his place and played ps2 for while did everything together went fishing and visited him day to day bases and one tim we played ps2 till like 7 am then i went home and went to sleep and then i woke back up at 10 am lol wow only 3 hours sleep for me i ran back down to my dads to visit him again then he started saying stuff about my mom and the past things that happen and the reason why things are the way they are now and kept up about saying this and taht about my mom and then said about that your mom probly has you comming around here to spy and take things about what he says about her or to see if he says anything about her and stuff so i decided to not to hang around him as much then it would only be visits on hoildays and stuff like that and then no visits cuase he would say negative things about mom and stuff he was living in the past by bringing things up like that then his father passed away and then i guess from what ppl have said that my dad had changed his ways after he passed on and that he wasnt the person he was and that he changed for the good and i was like i have to see it to believe it and came around maybe once or twice after that and he seemed to be the same to me buti held a grudge against him for everything that happend to me in life from the time he left and the things said and i just didnt want to believe for myslef that he changed then i started to think that i shoul.d forgive him cuz of the way he is isnt his fault and i have forgave him cuz i was starting to miss him again and emotions were running thru my head woundering about him and this and that and then i decided to call him and we talked for like 20 mins or so and when i got off the phone my girlfriend said that my face glowed so we set up a time to visit and stuff and he was stalking most of the time and he almost brought things up and then he stoped himself and said ill let that go cuz it was in the past and what really blew my head off was that he asked how mom was doing and not negitive stuff about her not used to hearing that i was used to hearing your mom this your mom that well rite there i seen that he has changed so that was that and i cant wait for the new fishing season and hunting season i need to buy myself a gun tho for hunting lol thats a must but all in all it was a cool visit and i hope to visit with him more often if i remember the way to his house lol well there ya go it mostley my life story about my dad and i so hope you enjoyed reading all this lol and more to come soon ill keep yall posted on how the relationship is going later till the next blog
