hypothetical thought for the day.say you were in a relationship with a couple who had been together for a while and technically you are the new person. one of the other people has the seniority complex that makes them think they are entitled to more priviledged things. In actuallity you are supposed to be as equals in the relationship. Everything goes great for a while but then every few months hell break loose because something doesn't seem right with the seniority complex. Its just so frustrating right now. It makes a person wonder if they really are wanted in the relationship.
I'm tired of playing the game of cat and mouse. I can't keep going through it. There is a reason behind my posting this as a public matter because I want input on how this should be handled. I'm pissed off and upset and hurt by it. The person is one of my partners. You know who you are and I know that you will read this eventually. You can rant and vent to our other partner but you can't come to me. You say that you need to take time to get your thoughts together before you speak to me and nothing gets said. This is the last straw. Its not fair to myself and its not fair to our other partner. You can get pissed off at me for doing this I don't really care. I don't know how to handle this right now. It was your idea to go into this as equals when we started this relationship. Now it just seems like you want to be primary and me as secondary. If that's how you want it then fine. The secondary wants to date outside the triad and IF you ever get your shit figured out I'll still be here but I'm just the secondary until then.
