Woo's blog: "Steph's Musings...."

So as a lot of people know my husband left me April of last year. The past 11 months have been filled with nothing but drama and heartache. Well lately my ex has been causing me even more problems. Lately he has been obsessed with things. When he left I basically let him take anything that had any monetary value. He took the 400 disc dvd player, the digital camera, the surround sound, the tuner..and a few other things. But lately he has been worried about getting other things back. Things with no value. Empty cd cases, and old halloween costumes. This past weekend he asked if he could stop by and pick up those stupid items and I said he could. Then he decided because no one in his family could come with him that he wanted me to bring him this shit. I told him no. I wasn't his bitch, and if he wanted the stuff he had to come get it himself. Well....he decided to put a stop payment on the meager child support check he gave me and now I'm in financial ruin. My bank acct is severly negative and mommy and daddy have offered to bail me out. And I HATE owing them anything. But I really have no choice. I'm so stressed out. My anxiety levels are through the roof. I'm pissed off because stuck in the middle of all this are my children. They won't get to see their father over some silly as empty cd cases. Makes me really wish he'd just sign over his rights and leave us alone. He likes to pretend he's some great father. But he will never be one. He's more worried about getting some ass or playing video games.