I'm not sure I want my girl down on her hands and knees trying to sanitize the baby stuff but at least she takes pride in her work

Watching the number of my crushes decrease is a little curious, but to be completely honest, being crushed on and not knowing who it is that has a crush, got a little old. I enjoy spoiling those that I KNOW gave me their crush, so their loss, not mine. ✌️

I'm so blessed to have such an amazing fu-family. In case I forget to tell you, I love y'all

While I realize I'm currently un-owned, I'm simply going to ask that I'm not purchased. I belong to my wifey, owned or not.

Laying here contemplating whether or not to put my house on the market and make my return to San Diego or LA. Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Yabba dabba dooooo! Finally got a quick minute to come see my wife but missed her. I'll be on and off the next few days so catch me if you can!

Life has been overly chaotic for me the last 6 weeks or so. As some of you know, I'm having life-altering surgery after the new year. I've been working on getting myself healthy to survive the surgery and it's been hard as hell. When I'm on, I'm often silent because there are many, many, MANY "friends" that have nothing nice to say and criticize my decision. Let's try to remember what our parents taught us decades ago - if you have nothing nice to say, keep your mouth shut!! And for those of you who can't, I've got no problem deleting and blocking your ass.

It is so awesome to log in and see my wifey is featured under the "send a toast" selection. Y'all, please go show her some mad love. MzPhyl deserves nothing but the very best!

Day #9 of not being able to upload photos and day #3 that Support ignores my request for help. So love getting bent over

What's the point in reaching out to support about picture issues only to have it ignored? Sure, my VIP funds are immediately withdrawn, yet my primary reason for having that is for additional picture storage, which can't even be used! I'm just not important enough for them to actually give a sh*t about it.

I have a sh*t ton of new pictures to post but since the app is being a baby back bitch and won't allow me to access photos just taken, it might be awhile before they're up.

Thoughts and prayers to Matthew Perry's family. This one hit me hard 😭

This 4am waking up BS is for the birds. Do you know what else is for them? Being smothered by 4 damn dogs wanting to chase squirrels up the power pole, frying one and losing power.

I have WAYYYYYYYYY too much time on my hands working at home. Thank God for Snapchat filters and fun times. Happy Friday eve friends!

I'm going through the friends list over the next few days and removing people that I don't interact with on the regular. Most of my family will be exempt but not all, sorry to say. If you aren't sure if you will be safe or ejected, think about any interactions we have had. That should keep sh*t pretty simple.

I'm taking a little break, so while I'll still show online and active, chances are, I won't be actively "on." I have so much going on, both positive and negative, that most days, I'm struggling to breathe, save anything else. If I like you enough, I might be willing to give up a little more contact information, but that won't apply to 99% of people I'm "friends" with so......

I'm so exhausted - mentally, emotionally, physically. Jumping through hoops for my surgery has been so difficult in so many ways. I have to keep telling myself that I can do this and that, more importantly, that I'm worth the efforts I'm putting forward. BUT.... so help me God, the next insensitive a$$hole that has balls big enough to tell me that I'm doing this the easy way is going to have my foot up their ass so far that the water on my knee will quench their thirst. Understand what you are talking about before coming at me or you'll be the focus of new content in my Fujects folder and updated status.

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That damn angel baby bling is bringing up some seriously heartbreaking memories and yet I'm contemplating buying 4 of them, one for each stillbirth I've been through. Guess that makes me a twisted old Veija.

Enjoy a sultry Sunday if that's your thing. I'm about to make my first payment into the "your team BARELY won but I keep my promises/bets" account. Look for the BET LOST folder later today or perhaps tomorrow, depending on how I'm feeling.