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the_ben
35, Male, Brighton, CO

Name:Benjamin
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(last updated:February 4, 2009 @ 9:50 pm)
** From now on, if you even breathe the word "fu-bling" you'll be off all my lists **

The literary character I perhaps identify most closely with is Gollum from The Lord of the Rings. There are two very different sides to me. There is a public, sweet, charming and completely innocent side to me. Then there is the ruthless, calculating, not so innocent side to me. While the one side gets completely bottled up in public, I give it a chance to breathe on here. I believe that if I were female that side would be very much like Catherine Trammel.


I was married right out of college and then divorced before I was 30. I feel I utterly wasted those years of my life for someone who could so easily toss me aside (for my best friend, no less). That said, I'm glad she did. I am happily married now and live just north of Denver in a nice community with her and her two twin sons.



I am an avid, avid sports fan. I'll watch paper cup stacking if that's the only competition on t.v. I keep in relatively good shape but long for the days of my youth when I could run all day and not hurt the next day let alone the next week.



I am extremely intelligent. I used to think it was a curse and tried to dumb things down. Now I am proud of it, but I don't think it makes me any better a person than other people. Some people can run faster, jump higher, are better public speakers, are more beautiful...whatever else, but that doesn't make them better people. Those are all God-given talents that they should be proud of and embrace, but it doesn't make them a better person.






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So in simple terms I like sports especially the Cubs and Red Wings. I also root for the Rockies, Nuggets and Broncos because of where I live, but it will be a cold day in hell that I cheer for the Avalanche.

I try and read as much as possible and prefer the classics like Dickens and Hemingway and Fitzgerald over today's popular lit. Of today's authors I prefer Palahniuk and Ishiguro, but will read the back of the cereal box if it is in front of me.

I love to write but never seem to have the time. I do the New York Times crossword in ink. I like beer and bourbon and tequila. I'll kick your ass at Trivia Pursuit and know how to figure pot odds on hitting my flush in hold 'em.

I've lately gotten into meta-physics, and I'm not talking about listening to Yani and knowing my horoscope. I mean the nature of time and what the fourth dimension is and the relationship of information to existence. I love talking about it, but it normally draws blank stares or yawns.

That goes hand-in-hand with my interest in religion in general and Buddhism in particular. I believe that the major religious figures of history were all speaking the same Truth. They just had to each put it in terms that their followers would understand. There's a reason they preached love and harmony and worked against hate and violence.

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