To be blunt, Im a mess.

UPDATED PROFILE:
If you look at this page and decide that its too LONG TO READ...You need not message me. Take the time to get to know a little about me...before you pursue me. If its a waste of your time/not worth your time then you obviously aren't worth mine :D *(YES, You will be quizzed and graded later haha)*

MY SITUATION:
I just moved to Wilmington from Michigan around mid sept. I'm just looking for girls and guys both to hang out with and have fun. Right now Im living with a friend in the area until I can get on my feet. I would love to meet new people and get to know the area more and feel a little more at home. Im still looking for a job and a car, so Im not really able to get out much right now. Chatting online is something id like to do moreso to get familiar with potential friends before meeting.
I am here to start a new life for myself and my kids since my separation(soon to be divorce) from my husband of 8 years. I cannot have my kids with me until i have a car/job and a place of my own. So this is my MAIN goal and priority. Please don't get an attitude with me if i chose to not hook up and hang out right away.I would still LOVE to chat on here as much as possible! Im busy trying to get on my feet so I can get back to my kids asap. If you can help me out with this......Im up for any advice! I miss them horribly and it breaks my heart to be so far from them.
MY LIFE/MY KIDS:
I am a mother first and foremost! I have two wonderful children back home in Michigan. My son is 7 and in his first year of rocket football. Stinks cause Im missing his football games being in NC :( My daughter is 5 and a fiery ball of piss n vinegar like her momma :P~ Shes my lil mini me and a huge drama queen.
Anyways.....My kids are first in my life. Take second or don't take anything at all.

ABOUT ME:
♥Im going to college for my associates in IT/Visual Communications.(web design/photo editing and the like)
♥Im very compassionate
♥Im down to earth
♥I love to learn new things!!! Especially new languages. Cultures/religions and languages fascinate me. Ive recently picked up Italian and know some spanish :)
♥Im can talk a mile a minute/VERY Open about pretty much anything.
♥I can be shy at first,give me a chance and Ill open up :)
♥I love to laugh and smile.
♥Im not the barbie type. I love to get my hands dirty,go to the beach,fix things,learn new things,walk barefoot on the beach
♥Im a mess but most that know the real me wouldnt have me any other way :)
♥I love to fish/camp/hike/swim/rollerblade
♥I can be a smart ass sometimes or come off kind of**** but i'm really just testing you/trying to get a smile or a rise out of you :)What can i say..its my way :P
♥I don't do the party scene very well(I'm too old for most of the chit that goes on and all that is involved in "partying"). I'm social yes, but around those that I know or have already hung out with before. I don't do bars/clubs to meet people. I go to hang out with friends.
♥Im not into the "night life or fast track" kind of life. I like simple and relaxing but love to be around a group of friends and family
♥ I would rather a movie at home on the couch vs the theatre.
♥Im a bargin shopper and pinch every last penny I have (guess thats from being a broke mom for 7 years lmao)
♥Id rather buy clothes from second hand shops than a mall (Over priced chit..ya pay for the lil tag on the jeans for cryin out loud. AND bargin shopping is so much more fun with more variety :D)
♥Im simple to please (in regards to material things) but not so easy to please emotionally. Im one of those "special cases" LMAO. Hence the "mess" stated above :P
♥Im very stubborn sometimes and need to be pinched to get my a*** moving :P~
I can procrastinate but I hate to be that way.
♥ Creativity and thought means more than a night out spending money.
♥I can be prideful, but that is only due to my 7 years on my own and all the "Tough love" i got as a child/teen. Ive learned to do for myself and be my only resource in life. So my pride tends to get in the way with any help offered.
♥I try to make everyone feel as comfortable with me as possible.
♥I treat everyone as though I expect/want to be treated. That also goes both ways. Treat me like dirt and expect me to kick it back.

♥♥♥I talk alot....probably too much *hence why this damned paragraph has turned into a novel LOL*

♥Im an open book. I have a past just like everyone else....Ive lived and learned and Im not afraid or ashamed to talk about it. Ask me anything.

************MY DISLIKES*************
People that think they're better than someone else because of a social/financial status. No one person is better than the next, and I seriously have an issue with those that tend to treat others like dirt cause they're better off.
Liars.
Players.("dont hate the player,hate the game" oh bullsh*tlol....If it walks like a duck,sounds like a duck and looks like a duck...guess what!?:P)
Drama and gossip is for High School...Ive been there,done that and graduated. Leave it where it belongs.






*******Im not a ****/cocky or have an attitude, regardless of what you may think after reading all of this. I am a woman that is beyond my years. I have been through most of what the average woman in her mid 30s has. I know what i like, what i dont like, what i want/expect and deserve. I also know what I have to offer is a big heart,affection,appreciation and all I have to give to those that earn that right.